An old problem: would you eat an orange with the skin

I don’t know for the other people in here, but when it comes to lovemaking I feel absolutely nothing if I am wearing a condom. I can as well masturbate and I would feel more. It is partially due to the fact that condoms in general stop the flow of energy, but there is more to it.

We might all be quite proficient with taoist sexual techniques, and be able to control orgasm and ejaculation perfectly¹.

But still the problem of HIV remains… even for those of us, and there are many on this board, that believe that HIV is a scam. Your partner will still be scared. And if you get HIV positive, you still will not be allowed to have sex with anyone, or else be accused of attempt murder (not making this up). And all this gets even more revd. by the PU lifestyle. Where before there could easily be a couple of months between each partner, so I had the time to make an HIV test, now the HIV test is not even considered valid. And I don’t want to lie to my women, for this would be lying, not flirting, by any stretch of the word.

…And still a condom totally kills every excitment in me. Too tight, no energy passing, too un-natural. As a brasilian women, mother of 11 kids once said: would you eat an orange with the skin.

So, how do you guys solve this koan. Suggestions needed.

¹ And the old suggestion not to use those technique to as a way to avoid pregnancy still remains. Although I have done it for ages, but I did it with women who I was happy to have a kid with, if it happened.