[millet]

Hi adel,

If you permit, I will just give you my two cents about your important and genuine realization.
Indeed, people most of the time love others thought their own emotional projections. Please don’t jump to conclusions: you may include yourself into these people (do *you* really love people in another way than through emotional projections?), and this is part of life’s process until you discover it and question it which you do.Everyone love others and even oneself through projection. Love without projection (or the most sane ones) comes after a lot of work which you seem to have the courage to undertake.
I would not question the love people have for you even if it is through projections because they won’t do it differently until they can, and until they see that these projections act as a barrier for real love between them and you.
Keep up the good work, be *patient* and *loving* with you and them. The work you do on/with yourself will have some effects on them one way or another.
take care,
millet

[millet]

[millet]

Yes! Thanks Steven, this makes sense. I still haven’t reach that point 🙂

[millet]

Hello,

Although I tend to agree, over 10 000 hours of practice may not be enough, unfortunately. A lot of people don’t even master their own native language after a life of practice because basically they don’t care enough to pay attention and ask how they could express themselves more gracefully. M.Winn wrote in an essay that qi is a language, right? So practice is important but there is no guarantee. Some are fast learners, others not.Some practice mechanically, others put 100% of themselves into what they do.
I heard somewhere that when you can dream in the language you learnt, you can say it is really part of youserlf. I wonder what could be a qi-dream?
Best,
millet

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