February 16, 2011 at 4:51 am #36701
When Im doing Big draw, or when Im have sex without ejaculation and after some period after ejaculation 3-4 days is the time when my eggs soak in my body. Before this period I have good orgazms but when my eggs soak in my body Im starting to feel that energy moving bad, big draw is bad and Im feel that I need to ejaculate. I can go in another way – pass the critical point and just with power of my muscle stop of ejaculation, but im dont like this way.
perhaps it is becouse Im young and I need to ejaculate some times.
Now I dont feel difference between chigun and sex)), condition of relaxation is same. And im feel that its same things only energy is different.February 16, 2011 at 11:57 am #36702
I am not a man so I can’t speak from personal experience but as a HT teacher and having listened to my male students, it is a wise thing to ejaculate some of the times when you have sex or masturbate, when you are young for sure.
Unless you do a lot of purification through inner smile and healing sounds to transform your negative emotions (which is the reason you feel bad). But living our modern lives that is nearly impossible to stay so dedicated every single day. So ejaculate from time to time, and enjoy it, give it a nice loving smile. And if you happen to have sex with someone, send that happy smiling loving sperm to your parnter. This is not a loss, but a gift! You will receive in return, nothing is lost in the Universe if we know how to use it with grace, love and kindness.
In English language ( I am not a native English speaker either) It is better to speak of sperm or seed than to speak of eggs, since eggs are part of a woman’s body.
WendyFebruary 16, 2011 at 6:03 pm #36704
personally don’t feel the physical stuff is the point
electrical pressure is…
this is probably deeply controversial to ancient hardcore sages
but I just don’t see it…
if you cycle the electrical force around the orbit you can see the point is to light everything up
some of the juice will spark the brain etc
but all muscles need work, and so does the ejaculatory system
if you look into the primates they have sex PRETTY frequently and promiscuously and have for 100,000 million+
better with a partner, but that gets into the whole human debate
I’m pro-Dogon in the maritalFebruary 17, 2011 at 2:57 am #36706
This site helping me in many things and in English too:).
I discover that i can ejaculate only globule, after that i feel minimum loss of energy, but to doing that you must so relaxing and be so concentrate, but after that big draw-orgasm so cool.. I think that its happen becouse sperm stagnate and ejaculate or ejaculate minimum is necessary for me.February 17, 2011 at 8:07 am #36708February 24, 2011 at 4:11 am #36710
I understand why sperm congest.
Its too important to produce during practice elixir, which is colorless. Another practioners give tongue that it is very importent elixir which is not produce only in prostate and have elaborating sperm(sperm is only raw material for this elixir), which is concentrate of energy, hormones and another good elements. And its necessarily to absord it by head, especially when you practice solo.
When you not produce this elixir, its heppen when you practice small, you will have problems with congest of sperm.
And another thing that i understand is that if you want to feel orgasm you must be Yin, so relaxing and be so recipient. But its just my experience im not insist.
:)its interesting thing when woman is Yang you is Yin durring sex.
now im becoming more Yin when i have more energy in sexual centr, and becoming more Yang when sexual centr is soft.
So its too close to taichiFebruary 24, 2011 at 4:13 am #36712February 24, 2011 at 5:30 pm #36714
”now im becoming more Yin when i have more energy in sexual centr, and becoming more Yang when sexual centr is soft.”
That is an interesting observation, which I would like to understand better, what exactly do you feel, and where do you feel it ?
for example you say when you have more energy in your sexual energy you feel more yin… my question is WHERE do you feel more yin and WHAT IS that yin feeling for you?
If too much of a problem to explain (sometimes it is difficult to explain feelings into words) I accept your statement in your above posting.February 25, 2011 at 4:38 am #36716
When my sexual centr is strong and it can quickly detonate:)), im trying to be so relaxing and practice slowly, im becoming like girl, breath becoming deeper and after few orgasms and some rest my sexual centr becoming soft, after this im becoming more yang more courage, more power, and my body like this… And im practice like this more in morning.
But in evening my body feels need to be more yang at first.
But its not rule
It helps me to get more pleasure, when my body satisfied i dont need to ejaculate.February 25, 2011 at 5:52 am #36718
Ok, I understand from this that this happens with solo practice, right?
Not during love making with a partner right?February 25, 2011 at 6:09 am #36720
When im trying to be more Yin im doing movements wich doing my girl when she have sex with me, so i learn like to be Yin from my girl. And she learn from myself like to be Yang.
Its interesting thing that im not satisfying when im becoming only like female, or when im only like male.February 25, 2011 at 6:22 am #36722
why? and with partner too.. and im doing it with my girl, its just bigger system.February 25, 2011 at 6:26 am #36724
I asked this because it is an interesting topic of how and when to be more yin or more yang in a sexual relationship.
Chris and I have been experimenting with it and still are experimenting, with flipping polarizations and how it make us feel.
In general, we found a significant difference with our ‘normal love making’ where the natural yin and yang polarization, him yang, me yin, feels the right approach,
and ‘tantric love making’ where we keep being just very slightly polarized in our natural yin and yang side but were we create much more neutral energy between us and were we shift from the ‘bodily energetic’ in normal love making to ‘energetic using the body’ in tantric love making. This tantric love making is much more about being than doing, is very relaxing and deeply satisfying. It feels more like the waves of the ocean, they crash on the shore and are built up again, but nothing is done with it, as in being active.
Just to make clear, Chris uses this term ‘tantra’ for the things we are doing then. We are not following a particular system with this, just our own intuition and some taoist context.
Thanks for sharing your feelings with this, always very nice to hear someones real experience…February 25, 2011 at 6:28 am #36726
why? and with partner too.. and im doing it with my girl, its just bigger system.February 25, 2011 at 6:48 am #36728
i dont have a more expirience with this and just started practice like this. Its open for me a big field of possibility.
Thank you for conversation
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