April 9, 2006 at 5:54 am #12619
Fajin, I hope your narrow minded view is just a game and your arrogance just a tool…
I am off for awhile to enjoy the sunset at Stonehenge by full moon and to contemplate in silence about life on the green hills of Britain… enjoy lifeApril 9, 2006 at 12:02 pm #12620
A typical comment from a typical Westerner. It is people like you that Easterners were afraid to allow their secrets to slip off to. You are always the type to initiate. I see why Jernej is a misogynist, women like you. There is a reason Bagua continue to discuss with me, he enjoys it and has learned from me, so have I. If you think I am a fire dragon, martial artist, that’s good, keep hoping. I hope that you will balance out your extreme yin.
FajinApril 9, 2006 at 1:39 pm #12622
Maybe she eats too much salami. Red meat makes your heart fire rise and ego is overactive. She certainly likes to make comments about others, especially from what I’ve seen on the post about hair, then about me being arrogant and narrow minded for no particular reason. I hope that whatever path she is embarking on, she works on that out-of-control ego, extreme yin causes extreme yang to rise and vise-versa in a cycle.
I choose Brahmacharya, wasting time with women leads one away from his goal. Of course, it can help, but that is difficult to find with women in today’s world, like Wendy.
Smiles to you Paulino,
FajinApril 9, 2006 at 4:14 pm #12624
I think your comment is exactly the type of chauvinistic mindless male stereotyping that destroys communication between men and women. It also drives women from this forum, because they don’t come here to be insulted just for being female.
Her comment may have been insulting to Fajin, but it wasn’t based on Fajin just being a male. So its fine to criticize others, but let’s respond to the criticism on its own grounds, not because someone is male or female.
I would appreciate it if you would apologize to wendy for the comment, so we can let it go as a lesson in forum etiquette.
Otherwise I will delete it and put you on warning.
michaelApril 9, 2006 at 5:38 pm #12626
Its hard to find a women in a monastery. Its hard to find earth in heaven. It is hard to find the shadow in the light. The Rose and the Woman are the same.
First voice: “Wasting time with women leads one away from his goal.”
second voice: “Of course they can also help.”
First vioce: “But its hard to find one in this world.”
Would love to hear how that ends. Hopefully it will not just go in a lope. I am with michael on honoring our female conterparts and arguing with them on the grounds of there argument not bring our bias towards there sex into the mix. But you have to get rid of that botton, so it will not be pushed. Relasionships great conflics, even better resolutions. Learning just the simple inner smile has helped loads in my own relationships inner or outer.:)
This is dog keeping it real. See yall on the phlip side. Peace.April 9, 2006 at 6:24 pm #12628
You already have an inner female and an inner male, use that relationship. If a woman comes up in your life, great take that oppurtunity. Do not seek, and you will find. But remember, a women means responsibility for her too. I prefer self-responsibility and don’t want to waste my time with women. I prefer the yin of mother earth and would like to begin coupling my inner relationship in Lesser.
When you get to a high level in martial arts you can take advantage of this. Try staying in Ma Bu (horse stance) with a 650 lbs. barbell on your knees and absorbing earth qi way down below under your feet through your bone marrow and into your dantian. I get my fair share of yin, thank you very much.
There is no need to argue with Earth, you are one. Just smile down to it. In the world today, there is always an arguement with a corrupted woman, likewise for men (vise-versa). I am not being sexist or misogynist.
P.S. Wendy, if you feel negatively about me, transform those patterns before releasing them through the forum, I don’t want to take that kind of crap from you!
FajinApril 9, 2006 at 9:34 pm #12630
Thanks for the reply big man. Why would a person be in a monastery if he was searching for a woman? Learn something new every day. This forum has helped alot. I am glad to see people not pulling punches. At what level do you think arguments stop, if at all? I do not feel I am responsible for my partners emotions. Not that I have not done that in the past. I have given people control. I have also sought to control others. I was not saying stop being celebit. But to call relationships with weman a waste of time, and to add on that “I get all the yin I need from mother earth”. It seems you and other toaist I have met view weman in a way I can not git down with. I do not think of weman as just a source of yin nor a waste of time. But if your saying you have not met some one you feel is friend and sexual partner material thats cool.April 14, 2006 at 10:09 am #12632
Fajin I could say, if I offended you I apologize but in fact I am not.
I could say if I am not allowed to express what I think I have nothing to add any longer.
But I have endurance, patience and a big shopper where I can put all the insults and male anger in to it.
I live with a super yang male for 25 years, so I learned to live with it, to digest the hate and anger of men, and even better to balance it. I believe the solution lies in the opposite, not to run away from it. But it takes courage to eat it all the way, and many people lack courage. Courage comes from the heart. And I don’t feel I have to shut my mouth to spare you, nor do I ask anyone to spare me if it comes from the heart. I am not speaking up to hurt you, contrary…
And tell me this, why is it that Plato and Paolino get the most hits on this forum (beside Michael), because they are so ‘nice’? Tell me why are they so popular among the male population of this forum?
But like Paolino has put it… woman shut up. Tell me why do have women to shut up?
By the way Big Momma isn’t ‘nice’, she can be very hard. If you believe that connecting to Earth will be the solution for the ‘female’ problem you will be surprised what you get.April 14, 2006 at 4:20 pm #12634
I think we got off to the wrong start. I am not super yang like the male you are living with and I am not angered by your insults and I could care less if you apologize because I don’t want any apologies.
Yes, you are free to express yourself and I am not stopping you. I also expressed what I think of you. I think that you give a good example of an over the top yin female in the Western society by initiating and expressing your rude opinions and assumptions about me. Maybe because you live with a super yang male that makes you feel like you are restricted, that you don’t get as much freedom to express yourself that much so you learned how to balance it out with more extra yin by trying to defeat that super yang by being more yin. You are very proud of your female gender and I can see that.
Btw, Mother Earth and I have a very strong connection, you try practicing 10 hours of martial arts a day with her and you will see just how it can get. I speak from experience this time, not theory. Thank you!
P.S. Remember, deflect 1000 lbs. (super yang) with 3 ounces (yin), use it correctly, don’t force your feminime characteristics to the extreme!
FajinApril 14, 2006 at 5:08 pm #12636
You are very right, I am proud to be a woman, and I truelly thank all the men in my life who gave and give growth to that.
One correction… I am a top woman, not over the top… and yes I am born in Western society, so it is.
And my ‘opinion’ was a question which in every way you could reply on how I came to that conclusion. Instead you did became angry. But you are right, you did not ask for my opinion… so for that I apologize.April 14, 2006 at 6:04 pm #12638
I sense genuine sincerity, if not humility, behind your facetious sniveling.
Therefore, you will NOT be beaten with your own Salami.
Just trying to keep a space open for women on this forum, and appreciate your cooperation.
I like funny also, but you can be funny without pointing your insults at a particular person.
You must be logged in to reply to this topic.