Healing love question

When im only starting practice healing love i executed some exercises from book of Mantek chia and one of them was work whith morning jin-chi — when you lie down on your rigth side and doing big draw, and after this morning exercise i felt myself charged.

Now when im starting practice healing love (solo or whith my girlfriend) i feel 4-5 orgasms and i finished without ejaculation or injaculation, its all cool but why i wont to sleep:)? some times im just becoming withered it is good when I practice in the evening but in the morning it me already does not charge so. My feelings after this practice is that im lose fire and becoming more Yin. Maybe it must be like this or
maybe big draw and orgasm its different things?

I find that sexual energetic massage very good charge me without healing love.

Also im practicing wudang orbit method one week.