April 3, 2006 at 2:13 pm #12322
Why is it that men shave their body hair? Did I miss a turning point in male behavior? Do they become more sensitive because of their hairless skin? Or is this an attempt to weaken men making them believe that hairy body parts are less attractive, even disgusting?
Like Samson knew body hair represents male strength, don’t put your feet in the trap. Honoring the male body WITH hair please!April 3, 2006 at 8:00 pm #12323
It depends on the culture and ethnic type. I assume you are mainly talking about american white males. I also assume you did most of your dating in the 70s and 80s. What is sexy changes all the time and with the on set of the internet porn sites what is need to get that turned on feeling changes rapidly. There is apart of yourself that will never be full from food, never be satisfied by normal sex. Who am I? Am I the body? I feel incomplete. We will do what we need to do to attract poeple to ourselves. Come complete me. As a culture we are very outward centered very much focused on apparences. I say lets just turn our selves insideout.:)April 3, 2006 at 9:25 pm #12325
Wendy you’re the first woman I have ever heard favour male body hair.
I have major body hair, but even I don’t like it on my shoulders.
W>>Or is this an attempt to weaken men making them believe that hairy body parts are less attractive, even disgusting? << That's what I've been told. Glad to hear someone likes it.April 4, 2006 at 7:49 am #12327
Yes, speaking from an European-American angle, as a 40 year old I say:
I find body hair ‘attractive’ for a man, and talking with women here, most more mature women like it, young women dislike it.
I can’t deny my feeling that by giving men the impression that their body hair is ugly they are attacked in their manhood. I observe more and more that men are having a hard time to be who they are. Now that women are standing up, the inevitable reaction is that they will slaughter men as revenge. That ‘getting back’
is stuck very deep in their memories. Letting believe that men need to shave themselves is just one of the little needles.
Personally I shave hair as a ritual. Before every travel,or before a course, which always brings chance in my life I shave my hair as in an offer. Leaving my old body (represented by hair) and going ‘naked’,open-minded as possible to transform the naked body into a new one.
If anyone would ORDER me to shave hair, I resist because this is an act of deep surrender. I only offer my hair to the one who is to be trusted or in general to the LIFE FORCE as a deed of surrender.
Maybe you know that in some cultures women never cut their hair or they become nuts
It is their power.
Or as a punishment hair is cut or shaven to bring them down to nothing… no hair means you are Nothing.
After the second world war, people were shaven publically to punish them and to mark them as whores or traitors.
Monks and nuns shave their hair as an act of their trust and surrendering to god, and in many religions their vow to celibacy (i am sorry if this is not rightly spelled)
In Islam and Judaism women cover up their hair because it is representing their sexual energy which is not to be seen by others.
Anyway I hope that for some men it is something to think about and believe me there are women on this planet that LIKE hair for the obvious reason that hair is one of the expressions of masculin strength and therefore very attractive for women who can stand next to a powerfull man. So to all men, if a woman dislikes your body hair be carefull and look for the other needles. Make sure it is not an attempt to bring you down to her level of low self esteem. Encourage her to stretch herself, to feel better about herself without knocking you down. And if you want a woman to shave herself, be very well aware you ask her to bow, so be very pure in your feelings…
If you like to shave yourself as a disciple of the LIFE FORCE please do.April 4, 2006 at 8:03 am #12329April 4, 2006 at 12:50 pm #12331
I think my point was missed but thats ok. I was trying to point to the roots of this issue as I see it. I assume that one of the big factors for this trend is keeping sex in the mind and genetals I.E. porn, magazines, tv, it just takes more and more to turn you on. The next would be issues with acceptents I.E. culture, personal. I also feel there is a very practical reason for men to ask weman to shave around there genatals. If you are dating outside your race (and I hope so) you will face this and other great issues. You have to pick your battles. The hair thing may not be a big deal for the guy or the girl. I think your right, using your body in loving rituals, is a helpful, and powerful tool. You are right people can use a tool we have created to try to control, and hurt us. Thats why I find it important to remember who gives the power and who can reclaim it. Lets smile to hair, lets smile to not having hair, lets smile to people who want us to shave, and lets smile to poeple who want us to keep it.:)April 4, 2006 at 1:27 pm #12333
Don’t worry ‘Dog’ I am not a purist, just throwing a little stone in the pond. Shaving hair for practical-hygienic reasons no problem with that. Just to keep it handy finding pathway through the bush…April 4, 2006 at 4:12 pm #12335
Don’t worry I am not worrying.:)
I just thought I can us this as a way to practice. Also past some time at work.April 4, 2006 at 4:13 pm #12337
Don’t worry I am not worrying.:)
I just thought I can us this as a way to practice. Also past some time at work.April 4, 2006 at 5:19 pm #12339
Your words always comes to mind when I talk to New York chicks about the European view.
Recently I have been running around NYC with my shirt really low unbuttoned and a lot of people get really upset and make fun on me like I am a 70s porn star but the thing is, I get 5x the attention from women so it goes to show you that the old magic still hasn’t been overwritten.
PS I got a blowjob from Paolino Luna.April 4, 2006 at 5:33 pm #12341
If you know the magic tricks you have the power… use it wise my dear friend
Dont let him swallow, use your semen wise as well 🙂April 9, 2006 at 5:04 pm #12343April 9, 2006 at 5:08 pm #12345
I have deleted a number of the posts in this thread because they included personal attacks on sexual habits of named individuals.
You are welcome to discuss taboo sexual subjects generally – their essence – without making personal sexual attacks.
Its unfortunate that iintelligent responses to the attacks had to also be deleted.
Thanks for cooperating on this in the future.
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