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>>I think the missing link is the aspect that we all have a female and male side.<<
I agree, but most don't develop anything of the polarity at all it means being naked, courageous, honourable, vulnerable and honest, right down into the animal self and waking up every last particle of lust, then to resolve it means no secrets and no time when you are not completely connected. It means realizing that if you ignore the other person you ignore yourself, I don't mean this as a 'you should pay attention to her/him' thing, I mean you realize it on a deep level where it can't be ignored.
The average bondage expert is *well* spiritually ahead of the people in this article. So is the average PUA. The people in this article haven't got a clue.
I'm sorry I keep having to do a double-take here. I thought everyone here was practicing something like this! Something real. If a person's idea of wisdom is:
Patient: Doc, my marriage is breaking up. What do I do?
Doctor: Do you ever have sex?
Patient: Not really.
Doctor: Might want to try it once in a while.… then what on earth are we listening to them for? 🙂 It takes dedication and perseverance even to have regular mundane love blossom for a little while, and these people can't even be bothered to realize it's worth trying for that, let alone translate it into something more all-encompassing. j
Very nice post Steve,
‘and the emotional and sexual needs of both parties need to be met. If no such mutual understanding can be reached, then the two people should separate–even if they still love each other!’
You couldn’t have said it better, for me right on the spot in my life right now. It is not easy to break up a relationship where there is still love, support and understanding. But somehow despite that love, it feels better to break up and give each other the space to ‘proceed’ where we get stuck…Despite all the good will, there is no evolution. We found ourselves in a comfort zone, we could have lived till death ‘happily’. But there is a feel that there is more to explore, not to get stuck in the comfort and to have the courage to break through that comfort and find out in unknown and new territory.
Having a good comfortable life is poison for the explorer in us.
Good is not inviting you to find better, there is so much to lose.
So giving up ‘good’ for something unknown is going against all logic and reason.Why stripping off your warm clothes to stand naked and to walk barefoot through new land?
Well, you know the answer…
I thought so…thats good to know, my guardian instincts were in high gear after a long class tonight. Good to see you again..SL
HERES ONE FOR FRIDAY NIGHT…BEWARE LINK SHOWS NUDITY..SL
… of this, cupid’s couch! Ooh it’s so lovely! 🙂 🙂 🙂 What you don’t get from looking at it is that because it’s inflatable it’s a little …. bouncy. 🙂 Just a little, just enough. Perfect.
I didn’t notice this until just now, but there’s a quote on that page from a couple who used it IN A SWIMMING POOL. True genius. AND the couple is in their sixties! Wouldn’t you rather talk about healthy relationships with them than with the person who wrote that article, I know I would. j
>It is not easy to break up a relationship where there is still love, support and understanding.
I know. Sometimes that is the hardest thing one can do!
Even when deep feelings within still exist, the two people involved
can be stuck in a kind of inertia that ultimately just boxes you in.
Actually taking the initiative to make a change on that end requires
real strength, and it sounds from your post you’ve found such
a wellspring inside.>So giving up ‘good’ for something unknown is going against all logic and reason.
Except ironically when it is exactly what the two people need to have in
their lives to allow for growth . . . and after a difficult transition
it can end up ultimately being the best for both parties.Best,
Steven>Unless you operate against your true nature and use your vagina to manipulate or overrule your heart for many other reasons.
Yeah, but this can cause so many problems. It can kill your spirit
and make you feel dead inside. It can make you end up resenting your
partner. In the end, you’ll end up being worse off then you were before!S
not to be too clinical or whatever, but, all things aside I really do think it is 8 vessels and thymus
or in other words i think the REAL chemistry which goes on is along the whole vessel set…
you feel it along the whole thing and it is just like two chromosomes plugging together only it’s your whole body..
BUT there is another level of it that has to do with the dai mo or water pump…
that pole in the other pole causes the two people to bind right at the center of their energy field..
so that basically their whole sex essence aligns with their spirit/being..
while I am not necessarily saying everyone should be a pornstar or stripper, and I am sure you can find a lot of unhealthy ones,
a lot of pornstars and strippers (which i have dated my share) are really like this..
be it dance, exercise, chemicals, yoga, natural affinity..
they put it off, their vessels are open and they have a strong sexuality..
sure, ther eis excess etc, but it’s also cultural..
gypsy belly dancers and chinese concubines come to mind..
my experience has been that the other pole in the pole actually intensifies the outer polarity.. rather than becoming OUTER androgyny, but that’s just me..
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